Black Widows

Black Widows are spiders that kill their mates during or right after a glorious sperm deposit.

I haven't seen one yet, and not wanting to; they're highly venomous. But I've seen people who lived their lives  like Black Widows do.




Black Widow people are those who have killed their partners several times, not physically but verbally and emotionally. They talk about their partners' 'hideous' failures and weaknesses to whomever they are talking with. They call from the dead all issues from the past and sing about them in their minds and with their audience. But in their eyes, they are the underdogs.

My sister was a victim of physical abuses. I condemned such act. But, I condemned as well any abuse done by women to their partners. We should condemn any kind of violence either physical or emotional; against women, children AND MEN.

No family is perfect, nor any relationship. We live in the world where the only certain thing is uncertainty. From time to time either one of us fall, but what matters at the end is our commitment:  we stick with the people we decided to spend our life with 'til the end of time and make things work out.

Some people asked me why I got married. I told them one of the reasons: "I believe that a happy family is possible to achieve..."

It’s said that ‘we’re all angels with only one wing, so that we need another to fly…’

 

Father,
We thank You for the people you’ve given to us.
Sustain us with your love,
In Jesus’ Name.
Amen.

photo: @ desertusa