For more than twenty-five years, Coach John's life has evolved around helping people, young and old, in finding their ways through life. He designed modules and trained speakers. He travelled extensively giving talks, seminars, retreats and personal life coaching. This blog speaks his mind, a product of his love for life.

Dutch Love Treat

john bejoOne thing I love here in is that, most people speak English. We joined Theo and Ads at the table and had really interesting conversation. Afterwards I took charge of a business conference with their wives. The ladies appeared respected and loved by their husbands. At the end of the night, I knew I like better the way people live and relate here than in Italy.

I remember Eugene, a country manager from Malaysia said: “Do you know what is the secret of our happy marriage? My wife and I had an agreement: inside the house she is the queen and there’s no king. Whatever she says and does I accept and respect. But when we’re outside, I am the king and there’s no queen: no insults, no high pitch voice no frustrated gestures.”

Taking from this two scenarios, one thing is clear: deep respect for each other. Life may not be sunny all the time, but when two people decide to love each other, there’s no excuses for bad attitudes.

John bejo

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